Meeting Blogging Buddies

[LadyJava]

Have you met a blogging buddy.. share your story or your links to your story here...

[LadyJava]

Ok let me start with my first meeting with Natrah.....

Read it here ok....

[Debbie aka Phatelara]

I thought she's your old friend. Blogging buddy rupanya.

Anyway, I have never met any of my blogging buddies. I've been on blind dates and met Mirc chatters before, but that's another story altogether! LoL!!

[LadyJava]

lol.. me and Natrah actually met from Farah's blog..lol..terus ngam..

Never been on MIRC but heard it is brutal..lolzz... I've met lots of yahoo chatter.. one of them is now my hubby!! lolzz!!

[Debbie aka Phatelara]

MIRC sucks! Too many people asking for one night stand.

Wah, that's really interesting. Patutla jumpa org Malaysia. =P

[LadyJava]

Tulah.. dah jodoh kan?? love in cyber space!!

[Debbie aka Phatelara]

I got to know my bf from a chat friend. Hehe..fate works in a funny way. =)
But we're total opposites tau! Hehe..

[LadyJava]

Yeap.. have you not heard, opposites attract..which literally means you have to work to make the relationship keep working :)

Me and hubby are opposites too.. but we compromise on lots of things so that makes it ok :)

[Debbie aka Phatelara]

Hehe I guess opposites DO attract. It does need a lot of work. =)

[LadyJava]

Definitely dearie.. but so worthit right???

Cheers to opposite!

[Debbie aka Phatelara]

I fought with him yesterday, but all is well now. I think I'm dominant! I hope he doesn't think I'm queen-controlling him. LoL!

[LadyJava]

Oh dear Debbie..
I guess argument are common place withe relationship. What's important is that you listen to what the other party have to say, willing to admit your mistake and never ever be hesitant to say "sorry"..

I remember I used to be very hot tempered in my younger days, but after I got married, I've grown so mellow coz its just take more effort to fight then to love right?

I think for me, my hubby is the dominant one.. but don't worry I can hold my own..lolzz

[Debbie aka Phatelara]

Well, you can't call it argument. My bf is the type who won't say anything at all when I am angry. Trust me, I'm not hot tempered, it's just that he needs to be reminded of certain things from time to time. He's the type that keeps things to himself. I guess, his childhood and upbringing affected how he is today.

I on the other hand, am so used to voicing out my opinion about everything. I am sort of helping him to talk to me more. =) Then again, it's good that he doesn't argue back, that would be a huge war. LoL!

I am grateful I have him. Hehe..we give each other freedom and space that we sometimes need in order to keep us sane. I think when we get married, there won't be much difference. We've been together for 2 and a half years now so we kind of understand each other pretty well.